There are many terms used in BDSM; common terms include dominance, submissiveness, sadism, masochism, and role-playing. Rigger is a less common term, although the practice is common, and it refers to someone who enjoys tying others up. If you are interested in becoming a rigger, you can’t just grab a rope and start tying up your partner. This type of bondage needs to be done correctly to prevent hurting your partner in some way. This injury can be temporary or permanent, so a qualified rigger needs to be well trained and have the common sense to ensure that the match is as safe as possible. Some rope techniques can take years to master, so you will need extensive training before attempting them with a partner. For more information on what a rigger is and how to incorporate this type of harness into your BDSM game, read on.
What is a rigger in BDSM?
Rigging BDSM is defined as the use of rope for functional and artistic human bondage, binding another person in an intricate way. They may do this for sexual purposes, but rigging can also be done for photographic, artistic, performance, or even spiritual reasons.
The word rigging is thought to come from nautical terminology, as it is the name of the person on a ship who handles the ropes that control the sails. Although ropes are not used in the same way, their use and knotting and hanging techniques are similar because they are used for restraint.
Riggers can bind themselves or they can use their skills on others. This is where their partner comes in. This person is often referred to as a rope bunny or rope bottom. They allow themselves to be tied up in intricate patterns and knots, trusting the rigger to do so safely.
Rigger’s purpose is broad, sexual purpose is just one of them, many are in love with bondage and the sensual and mental stimulation that comes from it.
What you must know if you want to be a rigger
1, Learn anatomy
Learning anatomy is just as important as learning those tying techniques. Because improperly tying can be detrimental to your partner’s health, it is important to tie the rope in the proper position, especially when tying for longer periods of time. Be sure you understand how all the muscles and joints of the human body work and react to this type of bondage to ensure the safety of your bunny.
2,Discuss with partner
Before you begin any type of BDSM, including this type of bondage, it is best to discuss all aspects of the drama you are interested in with your partner. Understanding each other’s boundaries and aspirations is necessary for an enjoyable encounter to begin. At the same time, you can both communicate your desires and fantasies and articulate the boundaries you are not willing to cross. Trust is key, so be open and honest to avoid any surprises and unnecessary surprises.
There are lots of rope types to choose from, made of a variety of materials. These include cotton, hemp, polypropylene, jute. You can also use Nylon Bondage Rope, which is body-safe and sturdy, with sealed ends to reduce fraying. You can also choose a set, like the Kinklab Bondage Basics Restraint Kit, which comes basically all you need, with 25 feet of nylon rope, a padded leather blindfold, leather wrist cuffs, and leather ankle cuffs and other for more versatile restraints.
4,Safeword
Safety words are essential in BDSM games because they give your rope bunnies a way to tell you they are uncomfortable or in pain without creating any confusion. Choose a word that doesn’t fit your scenario, such as “dumpling” or “pineapple”.
5,Be Careful
Even if your knowledge of anatomy is up to date and you are experienced in tying, you still need to be careful when tying rope rabbits. Pay attention to proper airflow and circulation to avoid injury, and never leave them alone. If needed, keep a pair of scissors or knife nearby to quickly cut the rope.
6,Aftercare
The aftercare is one of the most important parts of any BDSM game, as these types of sexual experiences are very intense for everyone involved. Check in with each other physically and emotionally to make sure you get back to the right real-world headspace and ease any discomfort or negative emotions.
7,Plan ahead
Planning ahead allows you to be prepared for anything that happens, good or bad. You can plan ahead for new scenes and decide whether to add new tricks. Or, some players will want to add more eroticism to the bondage process. Cryogenic candles are inaccessible objects, and I highly recommend the MistressRoom candles because they are so beautiful. In short, you need to communicate every detail with your partner to make sure you are both on the same page in terms of what to expect and how you want the scene to go. Making changes in a scene should also be discussed to make sure everyone is willing to change the game.
Final thoughts
Bondage is sure to be a popular option in BDSM, and it can blend well with other erotic interests to bring a whole new experience to the player. But becoming a Rigger expert not only takes time to learn proper bondage and knot tying techniques, it also takes potentially years of practice. You need to ensure their safety and eliminate the risk of injury to their muscles and joints. Improper bondage can lead to permanent injury or death, so take the time to always communicate with your partner to ensure that your scenario is safe and enjoyable for all involved.
References
1. Why More Men Should Be Practicing Bondage — InsideHook If you’ve even a little bit curious about bondage, you should consider letting your partner tie you up. There are benefits to both sides. www.insidehook.com
2. Rigger Lucas likes to tie up women | Local News | Detroit | Detroit Metro Times The artist talks about roping, rigging, bunnies and ‘head space.’
www.metrotimes.com
3. KinkLab Bondage Basics Restraint Kit — MistressRoom
Ideal for…heavy duty bondage, restraining, medical play, role play,the best-selling KinkLab Bondage Basics Restraint Kit contains self-keeping black leather wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a padded leather blindfold, and 25 feet of black nylon rope. Available at The Mistressroom.
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4. WAX PLAY CANDLE PITCHER FLOWER–MistressRoom
Floral Erotic Candle, the ultimate stunner, adds to the fun of bondage.Multiple colors to choose from, available at The Mistressroom.